We are a judgmental species.
When we see someone we don't like, we comment on it. When we feel bad about ourselves we can't help but express our feelings. Sometimes we project our self criticisms onto others to make us feel better about ourselves even though it makes the other people feel bad. We might feel sorry for it later, but we can't seem to help ourselves.
I've hung out with people who spend their days gossiping about other people. They laugh, rage, complain, and worry about the person they are focused on because they have pent up feelings about the way their own lives are going. I've seen it in my neighborhood even though it's a great area full of people who share and help each other out with smiles on their faces. There are some who stand outside, point at houses and comment about the people living in them. It's really bad at work, where the building is full of unhappy employees and changing work conditions that scare them. They probably don't mean any real harm, it's just that complaining has become a habit. I can understand how they feel, I just wish there was a different way to make them feel better.
I can also understand the need to judge the people we know and are exposed to on a daily basis. It's a coping method that helps us deal with the unknown. We don't understand our friend, so we gossip about them with another friend, hoping friend number two can shed some light on the actions of friend number one.
What I can't understand is the way people are spewing their angst and hatred onto people they don't know, especially via the web. Modern technology has allowed us to connect with each other in wonderful ways, and what do we do? We gossip, threaten, and rage over the dumbest things. It's especially bad for those in the limelight.
We used to be able to have problems in private, worrying only about what our family and friends thought about us and having the gift of time to work out our differences, but now we have to worry about what the whole world thinks about us. We tweet and vlog and email our opinions in the heat of the moment without thinking about what we are doing to complete strangers. It's a test of how secure or insecure we are with our own identities; a test to see if we can accept and set aside our egos for the greater good. Most of us fail.
The world is raging against itself. Wars are being fought. People are rioting. Families are hurting their own, neighbors are feuding over things that don't matter. And what do we say to each other to make things better? What can we say?
What if we used Twitter as a tool to heal instead of a weapon? What could we say to each other to make everybody feel better?
Being a student of Reiki, Ho'ohponopono, the vibration of Love, and the law of attraction, I've learned that words change everything. When we choose our words for good, gifting compliments, forgiveness, and encouragement instead of complaints, hatred and expressions of fear, we can shift the vibration of our and others lives from gloom to light - even if we aren't really feeling it at the moment.
Studies have proven that intentional thought by large groups of people can change whole environments. The more people pray or meditate the same intention at the same time, no matter where they are in the world, the better the results. It's called the Maharishi effect. The most well known experiment was held in Washington D.C. area in 1993 by practitioners of Transcendental Meditation. When the meditation group grew to about 2,500 people the crime rate in D.C. decreased. By the end of the eighth week and the growth of the group to 4,000, crime had fallen by 24%.
Can you imagine what millions, maybe billions of people could accomplish together?
The law of attraction says that changing your intention can change your world.
Ho'ohponopono stresses the idea of expressing regret and love in a short prayer can change the outcome of any situation: I love you, I'm sorry, Please forgive me, Thank you.
Reiki has the power to heal even if you don't believe it will.
After a night, actually more like a week, of constantly hearing about certain celebrities getting hate mail and death threats via Twitter which did nothing more than make their lives even harder, I came up with an idea.
Why don't we use Twitter for good instead of evil?
We don't have to pray, we don't have to meditate, we don't even have to mean what we say. Our intention will do the work for us, eventually creating change in our own lives.
We should try a mass tweet.
Every day, when we pick up our phones to tweet or text someone, before we even start the conversation with our intended reader, we should type in "I love you," and send it out to the world.
For the next month, at least once a day, gift a little love to the world. Whether you mean it or not.
Let's see what might happen.
Three little words. I'm already starting. I hope to start a movement of change. It's so easy to do.
I love you.
Tweet for good.
Pass it on.
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